I REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, YOU DO WHATEVER IS BEST FOR YOU TO DEAL WITH YOUR CHILD, MY SON TAKES TANTRUMS AND I DO WHATEVER MAKES HIM FEEL SAFE , I DONT PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY, HIS TRUST IN ME AND SELF ASTEEM IS MORE IMPORTANT TO ME, IF THAY DONT UNDERSTAND THEN THSY DONT NEED TO LOOK, I WANT HIM TO ALWAYS KNOW THAT IM HERE FOR HIM, AND I UNDERSTAND HIM, I WOULD NEVER TRY N MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE I DONT WANT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE GOES THRU, SOMETIMES ITS HARD TO DEAL WITH BUT I ALWAYS THINK ID RATHER HAVE HIM LIKE HE IS THAN NEVER HAVE HIM AT ALL.